Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent

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Last Friday at the social I talked a bit about Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent and the 3 Minute Game she uses to demonstrate it. Essentially, the same activities can sometimes be used to give pleasure or to take pleasure. For example a massage could be for the person massage-ee, or it could be for the massage-er who desires to touch the massage-ee’s body. This difference can sometimes be very important to make clear. A massage to help a person is very different from a massage to enjoy touching a person.

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